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You Cannot Mary Now? 3
-I Didn't Stop Myself, I have Reasons To do!
Most people look at the outward apperance of their intending partners a lot, to take their decision whether to marry someone or not. Many has stopped their destiny for this. The heart of a man is hidden, and that is what we must get first. Outward apperance of a person is good, but you cannot judge completely anyone with that. The word of God says:
The LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart. 1 Samuel:16:7
That is why it is only God that can choose a right partner for us.
When it was time for me to settle down, I have a reasons too to stop my self. I was not working yet, and my hubby was a civil servant whose salary was just so little, not up to ten thousand naira. It was a time when the gorventment salary was so bad. I looked at his take home, I looked at what this young man has. He has just started working too. But I was not discouraged. I saw beyond all these, I saw a great man in him. I saw a great future ahead of us. Then he was working with a state institution as a lecturer. If I had based my decisions to go to the alter by his salary or possessions, I would have failed woefully. I would have missed destiny. But then, I had a great vision ahead of me to pursue. I was not moved by the physical. God helped us through the wedding programmes. It was a very beautiful and wondeful event. Many miracles of provisions was unfolded more. A friend took up decorations and the cake free. Many more that there is no time to share. But I want to share this amazing gift. The wedding took place in December, my hubby got a new job in January. A federal Goverment Job. Then it was multiples of his old pay. I could not imagine this kind of gift at that time. God tied that gift to our wedding. Things took a new shape just immediately after the wedding. God gave us a wedding gift of a new job. It was more than wonderful for me. If I had look down on this man of God, and stop myself, I would have missed destiny.
I don't know your own excuse or situations, but don't hold yourself down. There is no way a child of God won't be moved by faith and will expect a miracle. Our blessings are more than what a physical eyes can percieve. Some blessings will not come into our lives except we are married. God is the authour of homes. And he has great plans for godly homes. My home became enviable in the misdst of families and friends. God started promoting us from one level to another. You must start from that little place you are right now, and move. You must start seeing a great future ahead. You cannot have what you can't see.
What are your fears? Fear cripples a man to move into destiny. Don't stop yourseIf! See ahead the physical. Pray, plan, and move with God! Nothing can stop you if you detetmine not to stop yourself.